being in love brings a whole new perspective to love itself, all variations of love. when i look at the way he loves his family, i learn to be more loving to mine too. loving someone also means putting down your pride at times, and biting your tongue to curb your anger or to retort in order for harmony to reign, because many mundane things are not worth making a big din out of, both for the trumpeter, and my family. it is also knowing that saying i love you, even through a random sms, is very important, because everyone likes to be appreciated and everytime you show your appreciation for somebody, you think more about and for that person. this is what the trumpeter taught me and i try to replicate that in how i show affection for my family too. because, because, we should give much love to those closest to us. it's the hardest thing to do at times, but you taste the most intensely of life, when you give off a little part of yourself away, be it going out of your way to do something, or just curbing the urge to say mean things. so hence, the beatles they sang, all you need is love!!!